I’m going to let you in on a secret…
Something that I don’t share with many for various reasons. Mainly because when I explain people give me a funny look and shuffle over to the next table.
However… I feel compelled to share it with you.
I’ll warn you now though – it WILL come as a shock. I hope you’re ready.
For years I was stuck in bad relationship patterns. I was making all the wrong decisions.
My love and kindness were always taken for granted. I trusted too easily by pouring lots of hope and energy into relationships very early on.
As you are here reading this… I guess you have experienced something similar?
Interestingly it was at the very lowest point of all (when I’d completely given up) that I came across the missing key that had been staring me in the face the whole time.
Everything I thought I knew was about to be blown apart…
You see for over ten years I had believed there was something fundamentally WRONG with me. That I wasn’t good enough to be truly loved.
So what did I do?
I tried harder to impress and get it “right”. Of course, this only perpetuated the cycle, encouraging boyfriends to treat me however they wanted. Then after a while they would disappear.
Which led to me feeling even worse and questioning my worthiness as a woman.
This had been the pattern for so long. Plus it was getting more and more painful every time… reinforcing the belief that I was UNLOVABLE.
Knowing what I know now though… would you like to know what the craziest thing of all was?
It was all true… because I was making sure of it.
My actions and decisions were all completely on board with the mantra of “I’m not good enough so I have to do everything within my power to make THIS relationship work”.
The whole subject of “love and relationships” had become so negative in my world – the idea of an exciting whirlwind romance seemed impossible.
As this was my expectation deep down… the results confirmed it time and time again.
A Change of Heart… And Mind
However, none of this was the missing key. It was just the map guiding me straight to it…
Which in a nutshell, was the Law of Attraction
The key that unlocked for me a brand new way of living AND loving.
If you’ve heard of it before, perhaps you think that it’s just wishful thinking…
Or maybe lightweight nonsense …Or even dark hocus pocus…
Well I can promise you now – it is not a fad. It is an empowered approach to getting the exact results you want – consistently AND with minimal effort.
Using the power of your own mind.
Something which everyone is already doing but for most, not in a way that serves them in their love life (as well as many other areas)
So I’m sharing with you some of my best practices that changed everything for me.
And I know it will make the world of difference for you too.
Believe me, when you take my advice to heart and embrace it, you will be changing the results you’re getting in love forever…
- To attract true love you must fall in love with yourself first. Start listing all the qualities you possess that make you an amazing person and partner. This helps hush that negative voice in your head telling you that you don’t deserve love and it’s never going to happen. When you begin to see yourself in a positive light, it has a huge impact on the way you start to confidently conduct yourself around others
- Begin imagining yourself already in the relationship you want to be in. Instead of reliving things that have gone wrong in the past, start to think more about all the beautiful experiences you are going to have moving forward. For example, where you will be going on dates, holidays that you and he/she will go on together, gifts you would buy each other for birthdays, Christmas etc. Go into as much detail as you want and have fun doing it.
- What goals would you be focusing on if you were already with the love of your life? Take some action on those other things and see it as preparation for the relationship that is making its way to you. When you meet “the one” you are still going to have other dreams so don’t put them on hold. The happier and more successful you are now, the more attractive you will come across when your soul mate puts in an appearance (which could easily be tomorrow!) so start becoming that person you aspire to be today
At first I was sceptical (I mean how could it be that easy?!) but the journey I have been on since applying these practices has been phenomenal.
For the first time ever, I felt in control of what was happening. When I would usually be fretting and feeling vulnerable – instead I called the shots. ME!
Not just in love either. All over the place, literally…
I now use it as a way of life and have never looked back. All of my clients who have tested it also see first-hand its undeniable power.
Just imagine for a moment what stepping into that world would feel like….
A world where you have all the influence and you are the one who gets to live your dream life… without any struggle
I want that for you because I know how it feels to be full of doubt, worrying that no one will ever properly love you.
I’m here to tell you that THAT is simply not true.
You are more than good enough and you DO deserve to have everything your heart secretly craves. So give yourself permission and let the Universe deliver genuine love, passion and romance… straight into your arms.
You owe it to yourself to give this a try.
I’m so excited for you and cannot wait to hear what magic you create!
Sending you Love & Light,
Since transforming my own life I have coached many people through emotional blocks so they can experience more passion and purpose for themselves….
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